Sunday, April 5, 2009

One more post, then bed! (1:34am)

I changed the name of the blog, at least for now, because I think it reflects us. It seems like many of us in the house are entering a new season. Naomi is almost two and is remarkably "grown up" all of the sudden. I think she seems that way because of all of her talking and devising of new games. Noah has entered a new awareness and Joseph is continuing on his path of growing into a mature, soft-spoken, but very articulate guy. James is sprouting and learning more about this "guy" thing as he slowly eases out of young boyhood.. and Bethany has hit a growth spurt. I've already posted about Charlotte earlier.

I'm knee-deep in my midwife studies along with being a doula and childbirth educator. I'm hoping for the right apprenticeship opportunity to show itself (please pray there if you feel led!). And Jim is adjusting to having a wife with a 'job' albeit a very abnormally houred one. I try to study for as much as I can each day and generally take a long day of study on Saturday (literally 8+ hours of being out and focused).

With no 'new' baby on the way and Naomi leaning towards potty-training, it does feel like a different experience and season. It's a good one. We're all enjoying life and this period that we're in now. It feels balanced while still quite exciting and fresh. I also feel like my doula/CE stuff has led me to a different position in some ways. I've been exposed to a lot of ideas and genuinely enjoy how certain things (natural childbirth, homeschooling, etc) bring together such a HUGE variety of people under one 'banner'. It has broadened my understanding of others by a lot and has been a great time for growth. It's also allowed me to pass more of that on to the children.

Now if only someone would decide mopping the floor is their favorite hobby, life here would be nearly perfect. ;)

Grab Bag of Ideas (like always!)















(These pictures were taken a while ago, we went to the midnight sale of Brisingr at the local bookstore. One of the girls' friends went with us. It was also a dress-up event so thats' why they look a bit 'odd'! hehe. We had a nice time, how could we not in a store full of BOOKS?!)

I changed the layout of the blog, if someone finds the white on black to be difficult to read please let me know!

IT IS, IN FACT, NOTHING
short of a miracle that the modern methods of education have not yet entirely strangled the holy curiosity of inquiry; for this delicate little plant, aside from stimulation, stands mainly in need of freedom; without this it goes to wrack and ruin without fail. It is a very grave mistake to think that the enjoyment of seeing and searching can be promoted by means of coercion and a sense of duty. To the contrary, I believe that it would be possible to rob even a healthy beast of prey of its voraciousness, if it were possible, with the aid of a whip, to force the beast to devour continuously, even when not hungry, especially if the food, handed out under such coercion, were to be selected accordingly.
- Albert Einstein

This might be long. Stick with me. Charlotte came to me a little while ago to have a conversation about college and school in general. She has some niche interests that she'd like to explore more, so we started talking seriously about curriculum in general. She will be in 8th grade next year and I can't imagine not letting her have a hand in all of this, isn't that the point of homeschooling? So, she's going to be doing the basics, along with a focus on computer-related subjects. Bethany also has some interests that she wishes to explore more.

So, we will be stopping Tapestry of Grace. I like the program. A lot. But we seem to do just fine with covering the basics with a variety of curriculums (Teaching Textbooks for math, various grammar sources, Apologia science, etc.). Bethany is currently studying anatomy terms and botany because her major interest is later doing a course by Shonda Parker - www.naturallyhealthy.com (or it might be .org). She has been invited to attend a midwifery skills weekend with me because we'll be discussing herbs, making tinctures, etc. So we're back to basics and lots of trips to the library!

The other fun thing is Charlotte has asked to start devotionals with me. I've never been a fan of canned devotionals, I'd rather break open my Bible and read it. I tried, really tried, to get into some of the "how to study" books, but the Bible and a good program like www.BlueLetterBible.com was enough. C loves the Do Hard Things book, is involved in their forum, and wants to do their printable devotional together, so we are. There's another that we plan to go through together as well. I guess because this is her interest -and- it feels like the time is right for it now.. it's natural and doesn't feel forced at all. I am excited about having this time with her to have these deeper discussions. She never fails to amaze me as she matures into a wonderful young lady. She knows that without her I could *never* do the doula work and midwife studies, at least not yet. But instead of the "woe is me as the overburdened oldest" she finds it laughable to read about some of the things listed in Do Hard Things as examples of what low expectations are had of teens. She's grabbing her life by both hands and I'm whole-heartedly encouraging it.

This is a major reason why I was attracted to homeschooling in the first place. While I don't believe we'll ever be true "unschoolers" I do know that I'm fine with child-led learning. The only place where that isn't true might be math - we do typical work, although Teaching Textbooks is geared towards homeschoolers. Also, in science in the older grades because I like the way Apologia covers 7th-12th grade.

I spent Friday & Saturday at a local midwife skills weekend. It was really nice and overall refreshing. We ate great vegetarian food (all took turns making a meal) and the midwife opened up her home to those of us that were a distance away. She has goats, ducks, beautiful gardens, and a very artistic/decorative home. Two pregnant women (and families) joined us for Friday's dinner and let us practice basic skills on them - baby positioning, heart tones, measurements, and blood pressure. We talked about birth, ways to have an easier natural childbirth, and then watched videos later that evening after they'd gone home. We did bookwork the next day, along with discussions. Many shared birth stories and experiences, which was invaluable for learning from other student midwives. I brought home ....

Eight duck eggs! This is our unexpected spring project. They're in the incubator now and we should have ducklings by early May. The boys are eager to help me build a brooding pen and I think it'll be an especially nice project with James and his new toolset from Christmas. The children and I will be headed to Virginia for a long weekend next month and a local friend has offered to duckling sit for us. We have hatched guinea hens in the past, but ducks are a bit different. Their eggs require a misting or dunking daily - we're doing a dunking 2x's/day - and the eggs are much larger. The midwife uses her duck eggs for cooking and I was pleasantly surprised at the taste (I was expecting it to be strong, but it was fine). I'd love to get to the point where we have duck eggs and more ducklings. The ducks have lovely personalities and I think they'd be a better fit for us overall than chickens. The big test will be teaching Kuza (great pyrenees dog) how to protect them and making sure predators don't get them.

Off to bed! This week should be much less chaotic than last, yay!

Thursday, March 26, 2009

Umm... yeah.


I am way behind on updates. I'm aware of this. To make up for it, I'm including an adorable baby picture. I was blessed to be part of his birth and will always remember it. What a pleasure it was to meet this wonderful family.

This week has been incredibly busy, along with last week, due to going to the Tot Trade to promote HypnoBirthing and doula services here. I shared a table with the local Birth Center and really enjoyed chatting about waterbirth & midwives with people who came by the table. The banner had a large image of a woman laboring in tub of water, so it was often the main topic of conversation!

We are doing great as a family. We had an early spring break due to great weather & Tot Trade stuff and will be resuming school next week. Maybe that'll help me blog with more regularity? I need to get some pictures to put up soon. They'll include:

- Bethany's garden out front.
- James and his cooking adventures (he learned mac & cheese today).
- Noah's 4th birthday (tomorrow!)
- and so on..

I do need to get a picture of Naomi with Kuza. They're so cute together because Kuza's head is about even with hers.. but he listens to her sweetly. She will often put out her little baby hand and say, "Kuza, stop!" if she feels that he is pushing her along. They did go through a few episodes of him leaning against her and she loses her balance.. that quickly ended after her howls of protest.

Anyway, that was just a quick update to let family/friends know that we're still alive. :) We are LOVING this spring weather again and the children are out on the trampoline a lot.

Friday, February 20, 2009

Book Discussion - Holistic Guide to Embracing Pregnancy...

I am facilitating the discussion next month in the Unassisted Childbirth Reading Room through yahoogroups. Please consider joining me! :) This book is available for around $4 from Amazon. (Their "best price" is off a bit). The discussion starts in March so be sure to buy it soon! There will be time to catch up if your book is delayed a bit.

The yahoogroup is a mix of folks - pregnant women, never been pregnant women, doulas, childbirth educators, midwives, moms, and so on. Anyone that has an interest in the book discussion is welcome to join.

Thursday, February 5, 2009

A week in review, a day early!

Hi all,

I've been told that I don't update enough (hi Dad!) so I'm going to work on that. I might have to make up exciting stuff to include here. This month is Push Month for AAMI (www.ancientartmidwifery.com) so I am working hard on that. It's a great excuse to sit down with books about birth and take notes. I also met with doula clients last night and enjoyed showing them some of the natural births (they're so dull compared to Baby Story.. lots of quiet breathing, gentle encouragment, and mom looking like she's asleep.)

Things learned this week:

- Children will not do the hokey pokey no matter how much mom cajoles them. They will do absurd dances when mom ISN'T trying to get them to do it.

- Charli can play "Into the West" on her violin and it sounds great.

- Bethany knows how to use cake mix to make pressed cookies (the ones that come out of a cookie press).

- Naomi knows how to eat cookies FAST so her brothers don't get them.

- Toddlers can drink the rest of mom's coffee and still nap. ;) (Yeah, I know, but she's pretty quick at swiping drinks and it wasn't hot.)

- One of the cats is good at finding little grey moles and leaving them on the porch (eew).

- I really wish the big van had a working radio!

- Noah loves homemade playdough and has the cutest freckles on his cheeks.

- Joseph is still squirrely about the vacuum cleaner, but he'll have light saber battles with himself all over the house!

- Snow is fun, but 70 degrees is better.

- Pipes will freeze if the water is shut off at 2am. They sometimes won't thaw until 11:30 or so... and it feels like days when you're waiting to take a shower.

- Indoor plumbing is a fantastic invention. I'd rather do without electricity than water (although I think electricity is needed for the pump - but I'm really not sure how it is powered. Hmm. Note to self: in spare time, research how well pump works.. or get child to do it and call it a home school project.)

- James is getting really good at drawing robots. I'll scan one of his pictures soon to show off. His latest had 21 axels, a solar panel, and a back-up battery for when the sun isn't shining.

- I learned how to turn word documents into .pdfs and I'm quite pleased with that!

- The UPS guy thinks Kuza is fantastic, the Fed Ex guy is convinced that he's going to eat him.

- Anything taken from mom's cup or plate is better than what is in your cup or on your plate.

That's it. Friday is my check-in day for AAMI. Maybe I'll make Thursday my check-in day for the blog.. which means I'm SURE to forget next Thursday. :)


Currently Reading: Ina May's Guide to Childbirth. It is my second time through this book (I read it during my pregnancy with Naomi). Here's a snippet..

"Have you never heard anyone speak positively about labor and birth before? If so, you are not alone. One of the best-kept secrets in North American culture is that birth can be ecstatic and strengthening. Ecstatic birth gives inner power and wisdom to the woman who experiences it... Even when women experience pain in labor, they understand that there are ways of making the sensations of labor and birth tolerable that do not involve numbing the senses with drugs." and "My experiences as a midwife have taught me that women's bodies still work."

With today's managed care vs. expectant care, I think that is a powerful statement. A lot of women have a hard time believing that their body *will* birth without intervention.